How to Finger a Woman to Climax

• Start by having her lie on her back naked and begin with things like kissing and caressing her lips, face, neck, breasts, etc., and then SLOWLY make your way south. Once you’re down below the waist, take the time to rub and caress her all around her sweet spot until it seems that she can’t take the teasing anymore.
• When you’re ready to move to her womanhood, use your entire hand. With your palm down, rub the area lightly at first and then add a little more pressure.

• She should be getting wet by now, but if not, take some lube or massage oil and pour a little on just above her pubic bone and massage it down and around her vagina.
• Now you can move onto using your fingers. With your index finger; run it gently up and down along her slit and then around the sides of her ‘lips’. The point of this is to tease her and make her crave your finger inside of her. The teasing and anticipation will send her through the roof.
• Next, let your finger graze her clitoris for a second and tease the rest of her womanhood with it. Each time you pass her clitoris, let your finger linger a little longer until you can see that it’s swollen with excitement and rock hard. (Yes, women get ‘boners’ too!)
• Now that she’s really turned on; run your finger in a couple of tiny circles over her clitoris and then slide it down her slit and slowly push it inside of her and push it in and out slowly a few times before puling it back out.
• Now it’s time to focus even more attention on her clitoris. Use your index and middle fingers and put them on each side of her nub so you’re holding it between your fingers. Now start to move it up and down. This move is basically like jerking her off, only instead of your manhood, you’re jerking off a hard little nub! Keep at it until you can see that she’s getting close to climaxing.
• When she’s writhing around all over the bed and almost there; slide two fingers inside of her and use your thumb to start rubbing her nub as your fingers pump in and out of her. Imagine that you’re trying to get the pad of your thumb to meet and work in unison with the pads of the two fingers that are inside of her, the same way that you would to snap your fingers.
• Continue this move and add more pressure and speed as you go along. She’ll make it clear when you’ve found the ideal tempo and if not, then just ask her if it feels good. When you know you’ve got the right amount of speed and pressure then keep at it and don’t stop until she orgasms!

Extra Tips

• Pay attention to her body and her voice so you know when what you’re doing feels right. It can be a little hard to know if she’s loving it if she’s one of those shy girls who isn’t too comfortable making noise in bed, in which case you need to ask. A simple “You like that baby?” or “how does that feel?” should suffice.
• Keep the lube handy since some brands tend to dry up quickly and become a little sticky. You want stuff to be slick and smooth but not so lubed that she can’t feel your fingers!
• Try to use your other free hand on the rest of her body while you’re working your magic down below.
• Be patient!! Sensual stroking is about getting her off and that can take some time, so don’t start something that you’re not willing to finish!

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