What to do if your partner's had an infidelity affair

Finally, you may be reading this article because one of you has had an infidelity affair, and you are now trying to rebuild your relationship in and out of bed.
This will be a rocky time for you, so some Relate or other relationship counselling could prove beneficial. Also, do read an excellent book that should help you both called 'After the Affair' by Julia Cole, published by Vermilion.
You need to rebuild trust too, so please realise that things are unlikely to improve instantly. These things take time, but are well worth working at.