There are so many relationships that tend to show that the woman is always on top. In this case the man has limited decision making powers. It is not new phenomenon in the world as queens have ruled on dynasties since immemorial. In many households this is a cause of big indifference problems.
Since most women nowadays are learned and running things at work, this does not mean running things with your man. So, it is better to check your attitude at the door when dealing with your man. Maybe a man really needs to be the head of the household, and if you don't trust that he can be, then leave him alone and move on. A wise man once told me that anything with two heads is a monster, so only one person can be head of the household, and for me, I prefer it to be a man. Women, know very well it is too much to carry; financially and emotionally, the burden of raising a family alone, And that is why men supplement what lacks but they should use that power to draw strength to a good upkeep a family and not allow that to make their family emotionally weaker.
I remember woman in her 20s at a management consulting firm I worked for and this man told her that she would definitely make a Partner but no one would ever like her because she was so damn mean, and she actually was naïve enough to take that as a compliment; not realizing that her "meanness and hardness" had spilled over into her personal life and causing her not to attract and keep good men in her life.
Naturally power of leadership does not come by as a gift but power is taken just like grabbing. People in power are people who want to take control of things influencing their life. If a woman sees that the man is timid, tentative or unable to run things then power is taken away from him unwillingly by her wife. A man should show he has authority to give directions to his family and wife. Whichever way it works for you!
Since most women nowadays are learned and running things at work, this does not mean running things with your man. So, it is better to check your attitude at the door when dealing with your man. Maybe a man really needs to be the head of the household, and if you don't trust that he can be, then leave him alone and move on. A wise man once told me that anything with two heads is a monster, so only one person can be head of the household, and for me, I prefer it to be a man. Women, know very well it is too much to carry; financially and emotionally, the burden of raising a family alone, And that is why men supplement what lacks but they should use that power to draw strength to a good upkeep a family and not allow that to make their family emotionally weaker.
I remember woman in her 20s at a management consulting firm I worked for and this man told her that she would definitely make a Partner but no one would ever like her because she was so damn mean, and she actually was naïve enough to take that as a compliment; not realizing that her "meanness and hardness" had spilled over into her personal life and causing her not to attract and keep good men in her life.
Naturally power of leadership does not come by as a gift but power is taken just like grabbing. People in power are people who want to take control of things influencing their life. If a woman sees that the man is timid, tentative or unable to run things then power is taken away from him unwillingly by her wife. A man should show he has authority to give directions to his family and wife. Whichever way it works for you!
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