In case you've noticed we, as men, are easy. We don't need to move much to be happy. We like routine, and take comfort in it.
Women, however, are different. Very different. To them constant routine without the break of variety is death... and that's what most men deliver.
Women crave excitement, variety, and newness. Many a man who "gave her everything she wanted" has been shocked when she walks out the door, unable to take another day of soul-killing routine.
The good news is, it doesn't take all that much to give a woman variety and excitement. You just have to be a little more different, a little more exciting than the average guy, and that's not saying a lot.
Of course you don't want to strive for just a "little mo'." You want to strive for a lot more, elevating yourself over other men.
Sometimes this involves going different places. Eating different things. Sometimes it involves telling stories about your day in a way other men don't.
Sometimes it involves staying home. But what matters is the routine is constantly changing, and evolving, that there is always something new and exciting happening.
There is a hidden benefit to creating experiences for women, even smaller experiences: it sharpens your mind, and leads to a more interesting life. And the more interesting a man is, the more different he is from other men, and therefore more attractive.
No, you don't have to drink Dos Equis and become the most interesting man in the world. You just have to be more interesting than the least interesting men in the world... and that's most of them.
Women, however, are different. Very different. To them constant routine without the break of variety is death... and that's what most men deliver.
Women crave excitement, variety, and newness. Many a man who "gave her everything she wanted" has been shocked when she walks out the door, unable to take another day of soul-killing routine.
The good news is, it doesn't take all that much to give a woman variety and excitement. You just have to be a little more different, a little more exciting than the average guy, and that's not saying a lot.
Of course you don't want to strive for just a "little mo'." You want to strive for a lot more, elevating yourself over other men.
Sometimes this involves going different places. Eating different things. Sometimes it involves telling stories about your day in a way other men don't.
Sometimes it involves staying home. But what matters is the routine is constantly changing, and evolving, that there is always something new and exciting happening.
There is a hidden benefit to creating experiences for women, even smaller experiences: it sharpens your mind, and leads to a more interesting life. And the more interesting a man is, the more different he is from other men, and therefore more attractive.
No, you don't have to drink Dos Equis and become the most interesting man in the world. You just have to be more interesting than the least interesting men in the world... and that's most of them.
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